Being an Overseas Filipino Worker (OFW) is tough. But staying connected with family back home, especially your kids and loved ones, doesn’t have to be! This article is all about helping you, our dear OFW Nanay and Tatay, become video call pros. We’ll cover everything from choosing the right apps to dealing with bad internet, so you can make the most of every precious minute.
Choosing the Right Video Call App for You
Okay, let’s talk apps! There are so many video call apps out there, it can be hard to know where to start. Think about what’s most important to you. Is it cost? Ease of use for your family back home? Good video quality, even with a shaky internet connection? Here are a few popular choices and their pros and cons:
Messenger: Pretty much everyone has Facebook these days, right? That makes Messenger super convenient. Most of your family is probably already using it. It’s free (you just need data), and it works on almost any phone or computer. The downside? Sometimes the video quality can suffer, especially if the internet connection isn’t great on either end. Plus, it can be distracting with all the other Facebook notifications popping up. Think of it as a good all-rounder, perfect if everyone is already using it, but not necessarily the best for top-notch quality.
WhatsApp: Another super popular choice, especially for international calls! Like Messenger, it’s free (again, just data charges apply). The video and audio quality are generally pretty good, even on slightly slower connections. It’s also known for being secure. Your messages and calls are encrypted, meaning they’re private. One thing to consider is that everyone needs to have WhatsApp installed to use it.
Viber: Viber is another strong contender, particularly popular in some regions. It offers both free calls and messages, including video calls, over Wi-Fi or data. Viber also has some fun features like stickers and games you can play together during calls, which can be great for keeping kids entertained. It’s generally reliable, but, like WhatsApp and Messenger, requires everyone to have the app installed.
Skype: Skype has been around for a long time, and it’s still a solid option. It’s reliable and works on lots of different devices (computers, tablets, phones). You can also use Skype to call regular phone numbers (landlines and mobile phones) for a small fee, which can be helpful if someone doesn’t have a smartphone. While it’s versatile, some people find the interface a bit clunky compared to newer apps.
Google Meet: Originally designed for business, Google Meet is now freely available for personal use, too! You can call your loved ones with their Gmail accounts. It’s known for solid video quality and reliability. The interface is clean and easy to use, making it a good option for anyone who’s not super tech-savvy. Great for big family calls with lots of participants!
Testing Your Connection: The Key to Smooth Calls
Before you even make that first video call, it’s super important to test your internet connection. Nothing is more frustrating than choppy video and broken audio! Several factors can affect your call’s quality, including your internet speed and the bandwidth available, and the same for your family back home. Here are some things you can do:
Run a Speed Test: There are lots of free online speed tests you can use. Just Google “internet speed test” and pick one. Ideally, you want to see upload and download speeds of at least 5 Mbps (megabits per second) for a decent video call. If your speeds are lower, you might need to adjust the video quality settings in your app (more on that later). Remember that what you pay for and what you get are not always the same; always test! You can use Speedtest by Ookla.
Consider Wi-Fi vs. Mobile Data: Wi-Fi is usually more reliable and cheaper if you’re somewhere with free Wi-Fi. However, if the Wi-Fi is shared by a lot of people (like in a coffee shop or at your work), it might be slow. Mobile data can be faster, but it can also be expensive. Keep an eye on your data usage, especially if you’re paying per gigabyte. Check to see if you have unlimited internet access on your mobile plans.
Ask Your Family to Test Their Connection Too: It’s not just your connection that matters! Make sure your family back home tests their connection as well. Encourage them to use the same speed test you used, if possible. If their connection is weak, suggest they move closer to their Wi-Fi router or try switching to mobile data (if they have it).
Optimizing Your Video Call Setup
You’ve picked your app and tested your connection – fantastic! Now, let’s make sure your setup is as good as it can be. A few simple tweaks can make a big difference.
Find a Quiet Place: Background noise can be really distracting. Try to find a quiet spot where you can talk without being interrupted by loud sounds. This could be a room in your house, a quiet corner of your workplace, or even outside if the weather is nice and it’s not too noisy.
Good Lighting is Key: Lighting is so important for video calls! You want to make sure your face is well-lit so your family can see you clearly. The best way to do this is to sit facing a window or a light source. Avoid sitting with your back to a window, as this will make you look like a silhouette. Natural light is the best, but artificial light is ok too. A cheap ring light can also make a big difference.
Position Your Camera Properly: No one wants to look up your nose! Make sure your camera is at eye level. If you’re using a laptop, prop it up on some books or a box. If you’re using a phone, consider using a tripod or a phone stand. This makes everything more stable, if you are doing something at work.
Use Headphones or a Headset: Headphones or a headset can significantly improve the sound quality of your calls. They reduce background noise and prevent echo. Even a cheap pair of earphones with a built-in microphone is better than nothing. Over-ear headphones are even better since they do a far better job of noise isolation.
Dealing with Bad Internet: Troubleshooting Tips
Let’s face it, sometimes the internet just isn’t our friend. It’s slow, it’s choppy, and it’s frustrating. But don’t give up! Here are some troubleshooting tips you can try:
Close Unnecessary Apps: The more apps you have running, the more bandwidth they’re using. Close any apps you’re not using, especially streaming services like Netflix or YouTube. They suck all of your bandwidths.
Reduce Video Quality: Most video call apps let you adjust the video quality settings. If your connection is struggling, try lowering the resolution. This will make the video look less sharp, but it will also use less bandwidth. Most applications will let you adjust the video quality in the settings section.
Turn Off Your Video (and Just Use Audio): If your connection is really bad, try turning off your video altogether and just using audio. It’s not ideal, but at least you’ll still be able to hear each other. It is a compromise for a clearer audio conversation.
Move Closer to Your Router: If you’re using Wi-Fi, try moving closer to your router. The signal strength is usually stronger closer to the router. Remember not to put anything on top of the router, or place the wifi router to an enclosed space.
Restart Your Device: Sometimes, a simple restart is all it takes to fix a problem. Restart your phone, your computer, and even your router. It’s also a good idea to clear caches, disable bluetooth, enable airplane mode, and wait for a bit before turning airplane mode off.
Try a Different Time: Sometimes, the internet is just busier at certain times of the day. Try calling at a different time. Maybe after work, or early in the morning, Philippines Time.
Consider Investing in a Better Router or Internet Plan: If you’re constantly having internet problems, it might be worth investing in a better router or a faster internet plan. Talk to your internet service provider (ISP) about your options.
Making the Most of Your Video Calls: Tips for Connecting with Family
Video calls aren’t just about seeing each other; they’re about connecting! How do we make the most of that time?
Schedule Regular Calls: Life gets busy, but try to schedule regular video calls so your family knows when to expect them. This gives them something to look forward to! Set up a schedule, whether it’s weekly or monthly. Coordinate with your family members.
Plan a Short Conversation Guide: Think about what you want to talk about before the call. This will help you avoid awkward silences and make sure you cover the important things. What are your kids doing in school? What challenges are they facing? Do a short planning ahead of time, so that you have conversation points.
Involve the Kids: If you have kids, get them involved in the video call! Let them show you their toys, their drawings, or their homework. Tell them about where you are working and living.
Play Games Together: There are lots of simple games you can play together over video call, like “I Spy” or “Simon Says.” These can be a lot of fun for kids. Other popular family games include charades, tongue twisters, would you rather, and two truths and a lie.
Read a Story Together: If you have young children, try reading them a story over video call. It’s a great way to bond and help them develop their reading skills. You can ask them what the story is about so they can stay involved.
Don’t Just Talk, Listen!: Remember to really listen to what your family has to say. Show them that you care about their lives and their feelings. Showing you value their thoughts and feelings can foster good relationships with each member of your family.
End on a Positive Note: Always end the call on a positive note. Tell your family that you love them and that you’re thinking of them. Let them know you are looking forward to the next video call!
Addressing Common Video Call Problems for OFWs
Even with the best preparation, you might run into some common video call problems. Here’s how to tackle them:
Time Zone Differences: This is a big one for OFWs! Figuring out the time difference can be tricky which is why it’s necessary to schedule. Use a time zone converter to find the best time for both you and your family. Consider making it a recurring scheduled event on your calendar so you don’t forget! You can use Time and Date converter to sync.
Language Barriers: If you’re working in a country where you don’t speak the language fluently, communicating with locals can be challenging. It’s okay! You can use translators on your video call. Take your time to learn basic phrases in your local language. Share new words with your family back home! You could be a great language resource for everyone!
Homesickness: Video calls can sometimes make homesickness worse. It’s tough to see your family and not be with them. If you’re feeling down, reach out to other OFWs in your area. Find OFWs in your community who share about their experiences to learn and feel that you are not alone.
Feelings of Guilt: Many OFWs feel guilty about being away from their families. It’s important to remember that you’re doing this for them. The best way to manage guilt is to stay connected, be involved in their lives as much as possible, and focus on the positive reasons for your sacrifice.
Building a Communication Bridge: Video calls are a powerful tool for rebuilding your communication bridge with your loved ones after being apart. Remember to be patient, understanding, and open-minded. Actively listen with empathy as communication is a two-way street.
Digital Literacy for the Family Back Home
It’s important to remember that not everyone back home is as tech-savvy as you might be. Patience and a helping hand can go a long way!
Teach Them the Basics: Take the time to explain how to download and install the app, how to create an account, and how to make a video call to your family. A little bit of instruction can go a long way. This is especially useful for your elderly members of the family. Walk them through the set up and troubleshooting process so they can communicate with you clearly.
Create Easy-to-Follow Guides: Written or visual guides can be super helpful, especially for those who are less comfortable with technology. Include screenshots and step-by-step instructions. You can create a digital booklet and send it to your loved ones.
Offer Remote Support: If they’re having trouble, try walking them through the steps over the phone or another video call. You can also use remote desktop software to take control of their computer and fix the problem from afar. This way, you can resolve any technical difficulties or questions in real-time.
Be Patient: Remember that everyone learns at their own pace. Don’t get frustrated if they don’t pick it up right away. Keep repeating instructions as needed.
Data Security Awareness
Remember to protect yourselves and your family members from online dangers. It’s crucial to be aware of privacy settings. This is especially useful for those with Facebook accounts. This is for safety and best practices, especially since you are an OFW.
Teach Them About Phishing Scams: Explain how to recognize and avoid phishing scams. These scams often try to trick people into giving away personal information like passwords and credit card numbers.
Instruct Them About Fake News: Teach them to verify the sources before sharing information with their loved ones. Teach them about fake news peddlers online.
Explain Strong Password Protection: Make sure that they understand the importance of using strong, unique passwords for their online accounts. Encourage frequent password changes. Remind them not to share passwords with others.
Remind Them About Privacy Settings: Walk your family members through privacy settings of the apps, websites, and social media accounts. Ensure that they are aware of what personal information is being shared and who they are sharing it with.
Taking Care of YOURSELF: Mental Health
As an Overseas Filipino Worker, your well-being is important, and it’s often overlooked. Remember to also care for yourself. Allot personal time for your hobbies. You can make new friends online through various Facebook groups or forums. You can do yoga or stretching to exercise your body and mind. Remember your mental clarity!
Limit Social Media: Limit your time on social media. This could trigger feelings of isolation. When you visit social media, visit groups with good vibes to keep your motivation. Share your positive experience and success stories with other OFWs.
FAQ Section
What’s the best video call app for OFWs?
That depends on your needs, budget, and what your family already uses. Messenger and WhatsApp are popular because they’re free and easy to use. Google Meet offers reliable quality and supports large groups which makes it great for family reunions. Test a few apps to see what works best for you.
My internet is really slow. What can I do to improve video call quality?
Try closing unnecessary apps, reducing the video quality in your app’s settings, turning off your video altogether, moving closer to your router (if you’re using Wi-Fi), or calling at a different time of day.
How can I make video calls more engaging for my kids?
Get them involved! Let them show you their toys or drawings, play games together, read a story, sing songs, or have themed calls! Themed calls can include sharing about your culture with them.
What if my family back home isn’t very tech-savvy?
Be patient! Offer to guide them through the setup process step-by-step. Create simple written or visual guides with screenshots. And remember, it’s okay if they don’t pick it up right away. What’s more important is you stay connected with them!
How do I deal with the time zone difference?
Use a time zone converter to find the best time for both you and your family. Schedule regular calls and set reminders so you don’t forget!
I feel guilty being away from my family. How can I cope with that?
It’s normal to feel guilty. Remember you’re doing it for their future. Focus on staying connected and being involved in their lives as much as possible. Reach out to other OFWs for support.
How do I avoid getting scammed online?
Be wary of clicking suspicious links, avoid sharing sensitive information with unknown people, and always verify the source before sharing any information.
References
Speedtest by Ookla.
Time and Date Converter.
Ready to start video calling like a pro? Don’t wait! Pick an app, test your connection, optimize your setup, and schedule that first call. Your family is waiting to see you and hear your voice. Reconnect, share your stories, and bridge the distance. Start now for a stronger, happier family connection!
